#18 Session

[Caryl Dennis]

1. Describe my relationship to _______________.
Brotherly relationship, family close, didn’t really feel like a brother (Very close nephew)

2. Describe their personality during their most recent physical lifetime.
Laid back, didn’t stress, day to day, responsible, not a go getter, good heart (He probably could appear that way when you first met him, but he really was a go getter, driven, meticulous, well-read, bright guy, very good heart, very helpful)

3. Is there anything unusual, outstanding or memorable about their dress or mannerisms?
Chewing gum, casual dresser, relaxed, laid back, calm (Yes casual dresser and well, calm, body builder, no connection to chewing gum that he knew of)

4. In their current surroundings is there anything unusual, outstanding or meaningful?
I saw what looked like snow, it was all white, I saw an older car, 40-50s (Didn’t know of any connection to cars, there may have been a car poster in his room - No poster)

5. What are you feeling or experiencing?
Enjoying it, older woman there, maybe mother, “I’m not alone”, feels safe (Older woman could be his great grandmother.)

6. What happened to you – how did you get here?
I began feeling a strange vibrating in my arms and then like an explosion in my head, my guess was something like an aneurysm. Felt like he passed quickly and gently, “cruised to the other side”. Got what he expected like he had a good idea of what to expect. (He was 20 and died of cancer throughout his body, something ruptured in his belly just before he died. Died in his sleep. His parents had been reading books about life after death with him just before he died and had been openly talking to him about it.)

7. What is your hobby, special interest or favorite thing to do?
Cars, laid back, chillin, hanging out (Music, martial arts, history, didn’t know of any connection to cars)

8. Describe a physical lifetime scene we were both in I will remember.
Both of them on an airplane going some where they needed to go, like a funeral or something, not a vacation, bonding (#18 does not remember flying with him at any time, were on a chairlift, skiing before)

9. Show, tell or give us something that proves this visit is real.
Something of his is hanging on the wall in #18’s home, reminds #18 of him every time he walks by it. (#18 has been taking care of the deceased’s home this summer and there is a wall of memorabilia from the deceased hanging on the wall and he does think of him every time is walks down the hall, He could not remember anything hanging in his own home.)

10. Do you have a special message for me?
Thank you for taking care of something #18 agreed to do and is still doing. (He didn’t remember anything particularly he agreed to do, but #18 did take care of things after his death and is taking care of the house. Later #18 said, "it dawned on me that 3 years ago when Michael started his battle with cancer I had made a vow to Buddha asking to save Michael and in turn I would never eat the meat of a warm-blooded animal again (chicken, beef, pork, lamb ... not fish or seafood though 'cause that would have been just too hard). After Michael had passed I thought, in anger, about eating meat again but i decided not to. I am still committed to keeping the vow. So in reviewing the answer to "the message to me" question, it could fit. )

NOTE: Didn't seem to be any "white crows", as Bruce Moen refers to them, in this session. I wasn't feeling well at the time and probably shouldn't have done it. Neither of us were completely sure we had connected to his nephew.